Psyche

  • Busy,  Life,  Mental Health,  Psyche,  Stress

    Why We Feel the Need to Control Time?

    Why do we need to control our time? There are reasons why some of us tend to want to do this. I’ve been doing some research and it is stemming from neurological stimuli or lack thereof and/or subconscious debris that is floating around in there in our psyches. In the past year, I’ve been almost obsessed with trying to cram so much into my schedule and I will do almost anything to protect what little time I have in my schedule. Some bloggers have put me down for my constant quest for more time, comparing my life to others, and telling me to get over it and just be happy…

  • Life,  Psyche,  Work

    Stocking up the Office for Work, Boundaries at Work, Being Considerate, and Yesterday’s Progress

    I had a load to take into work yesterday! Here’s my “haul”. I eat breakfast and lunch and snack there, so it dwindles quickly. Yesterday was another odd work day. A little more trouble than it needed to be. I usually find myself begging others to turn in things for payroll. I decided to draw a line/a boundary. I’m getting good at those! People know what they need to do and depend on me to remind, beg, plead, scream, whimper, fuss, throw feathers. But…I’m no longer going to be the “fire lighter” under the butts of the problem. I’m just going to calmly do my job and let others do…

  • Mental Health,  Psyche,  Relationships,  Work

    Fear and Anxiety: How Other People and Entities Shape Our Minds

    Wow, so on this topic, honestly, I think I could write myself into oblivion. It would be never ending. From the beginning of time, we have been curious individuals and we have been out to discover, learn, and change our world. We have been like a magnet and a sponge – would that mean we are SpongeNets? Magnasponges? lol I mean look at Adam and Eve, how curious and open to diving in, and it spread from the serpent, to Eve, to Adam, and to their children, and……..not just sin here but, influence is what I’m talking about. It only takes one person to start a revolution, an idea, a…