Managing Life with Grace and Ease….or Maybe NOT!

We are so lucky, well most of the time, to have deer roaming freely in our neighborhoods. They are so used to people and even vehicles. This one, simply looks up, and goes on about eating the neighbors lilies, lol. You can barely seem him in the picture. He’s right in the middle. I actually Thank God in the mornings for the wildlife he puts in our midst. It makes me feel good knowing that if I can’t be out exploring God’s beauty at least he will bring it to me in some fashion.

The Heat is On

Summer is trying to squeeze out as much heat upon us as it can. Although areas to our Southwest seem to have had more heat warnings. We’ve had temps around 95-97. The maintenance crew was in our office -not from our company but I guess who ever owns the buildings send in someone to monitor the “new fangled” system they put in back in spring. They have had issue with it since. The old one seemed to work fine and only had to be adjusted when a frontal boundary came through but this one has kept nearly NO ONE happy. lol. Everyone is either blasted to the Arctic cold or melting in a pool of humid and extremely warm air. Eventually the break room and my office took the brunt of the arctic air while the rest became somewhat comfortable. I vowed to endure it with my heater going and a wool cape that resembles a wool throw one would have upon them in the coldest of winter days.

So the maintenance guys were in again testing the “whatever it is they test” throughout the building – air holes, I don’t know. And I told them how cold it was in my office. So now I guess they turned the vent off and so this week this has been the story.

Once again, I vowed to put up with it. I was the one that said I was cold. One can only laugh. I hate to complain. Fall is coming and then I guess it will be cold in there. lol lol lol. I don’t know what the answer is, other than to turn my fan on HIGH. I moved it closer to me and let it blow directly on my face and yesterday I make sure I drink lots of ice water. I also can put cold paper towels on my neck.

Life and “the universe” as they call it, just seems to play together sometimes. And so this was Monday’s calendar.

Well, heck yeah I’m hot! lol But bless their hearts, they just can’t figure this system out. I guess the owners were trying some new fangled system to save money but it’s just not working.

Exhaustion

So I’m not sure if the heat played a part in this or not. All I know is that around Noon on Monday I began feeling extremely tired. It was hard to get through the day. I didn’t feel bad or sick as much as I just felt lifeless. And maybe I was just dehydrated. But when I went home, I went straight to bed. I got up and ate dinner which is how I knew I wasn’t sickly. Dinner was good and I went back to bed.

Sleep was…….well……good but in the middle of the night I guess I had a weird nightmare. My body was so tired that whenever I was trying to wake up, I couldn’t. I couldn’t move. I tried to move my arms and legs but they wouldn’t move. I had to pray to wake up as it felt some force was over me not allowing me to wake up or move. I was determined to overcome whatever was overpowering me. I guess it was a weird dream. I woke up when I prayed Lord get rid of whatever is overpowering me. I woke up from the dream at that point. It freaked me out. It kinda bothered me all day when I thought of it. I think my body was just so tired it really didn’t want to move as I was waking up, because it kinda felt that way also when I was awake. I just wanted to be!

I still felt exhausted when I got up yesterday morning (Tuesday morning) still. But I was hungry and determined to get payroll done and then come home and go to bed again.

At work, I closed the blinds, and then kept icy cold water and drinks in front of me. I have no idea if it was the heat or not – but it certainly wasn’t helping any – but I was determined to make the situation better. The blinds down brought the temp down to 78 and I made sure to drink a lot of fluids. See I have blood pressure meds that have a water pill in them and so that can make things worse from a dehydration stand point.

Anyway by Noon I began to feel like I was coming back to life. During the exhaustion period, I couldn’t not do anything other than “get through the moment” – no planning, no thinking about the next thing. So by Noon I actually began to feel better in the way that I was less tired but also able to think about my to do list and what I would do when I got home. So I knew I was on the mend. The idea crossed my mind that perhaps I was getting “the dreaded” but no other signs. I considered even staying home as the tiredness was so debilitating but then who calls in b/c they are tired? I’m tired a lot, I’d have to be off A LOT if that was a reason to call in. And I’m not going to get a test for being tired. Not even sure they would give one.

So I’m much better. Not quite to perfection but feeling better anyway. Much more normal!

Pray for Family

Speaking of the dreaded. I have some family near and dear to heart that likely have “the dreaded”. I’m calling it the “the dreaded” b/c I think if you mention it in some media forms the post is not broadcast or meeting the algorithms now. So I try not to mention it.

So they are not getting tested – or haven’t yet anyway – but I don’t want to mention who they are. For the “trolls” or the “stalkers” to ease your mind – NO I’ve not been around them to expose anyone so rest your fears. Anyway, I’m really worried about them, VERY worried. So please put up some prayers that God heals quickly, no long term issues, and no respiratory issues and no problems from this. One of them has had pneumonia before and once you get it, it can be easy to get again and I worry about that.

Flood Victims and Families of the Deceased

I was shocked to realize that one of the people that lost their lives in the flooding, was a lady I had worked with at the envelope plant, Jane Warfield. She retired some twenty years ago and moved to Waverly. She would have been 81 or so I think. Her husband also passed. This was sad. I don’t know the details of her particular story but it certainly made this more personal. And it’s sad to see the names listed. You realize where each name is, there is a family heavy with grief. And this is not the entire list. I also had a teacher once by the name of Linda Arnold. I think that was her name. I have no idea if that is her. I took this pic to send my friends at the envelope plant.

Hoping to find out more information. At least I understood this was the confirmed deaths, but there were some that were still missing. It’s tough to watch the news coverage on this. Even the law enforcement having a tough time keeping composure and breaking down on the news briefings. One said “Sorry guys you have to realize we grew up in this community and these were all people we knew”. There are numerous homes that just floated away.

So prayers for these folks. I want to do something! Perhaps make a donation or send supplies, but for right now I’m just praying.

One never knows what a day will bring. Certainly those folks didn’t know they would get 13-17 inches of rain and drown at their place of dwelling or their place of work, or be swept away by a surprise tidal flooding wave.

Have a Joyous Day and Enjoy it Whatever You Do

I have to leave you with encouragement after that. Here’s your “Meanwhile in Texas” section of the day. My little toot – my Little Roo. Don’t you just want to scoop him up and give him some loving? Gosh I miss him.

Well, not sure this is encouraging but I ran across this picture yesterday. I think it was in my Facebook memories. It made me cry. I miss them so much. I know though, that the Lord just knows what we can handle and what we can’t. I know that for this season while we moved Mom, are having Mom live with us, and will be moving her again – and for the time frame where we went to see our Grandson and will go again, God just knew we needed less responsibility. But my heart misses them both so much. Especially the love that Maisy gave me that just stole my heart. How she loved me at times when it seemed like no one else did. God used her to warm my heart.

I know in my heart there will be another special dog or two. But now is not the time. When I get sad I think about how good God was to send us Maisy and Roger and I know that in time and I trust – that God will again send us two more amazing doggies to love and care for and have them care for us! I’m so looking forward to it. But we need to get Mom settled and take a couple of trips. I’m thinking spring/summer/fall of 2022. Stay tuned.

You Know Fall is Coming When You See This

There seem to be spiders outside everywhere before fall gets here. Not sure why but I guess that is why you see so many spider decorations at Halloween.

Well, I need to go and get ready. I’m glad to be feeling better and glad I can work toward my to do list. Got the ironing done yesterday after work – pressing the wrinkles out of some work pants. I let them hang dry as my clothes last longer when I do that. Also got the sunroom sofa blankets put back on. I know ya’ll liked the sofa sunroom furniture pattern but I don’t. So I cover them with blankets/quilts. I had washed them and now all is ready for fall. It also makes them comfy too.

Now to move on to set my next hair appt – likely 10 to 12 weeks out and do my computer updates on the Mac, order vacuum bags for the new vacuum. Then I can do my To Do List that is hard to get to, lol. Dinner tomorrow night with neighbor and friend Christie! Can’t wait to catch up with her.

Ok – over and out! Probably will blog again on Friday morning. Whatcha got going on in your week?

9 responses to “The Heat is On, Exhaustion, and Prayers for Family and Tennessee Flood Victims”

  1. 7monica7 Avatar

    Yes, the HEAT is on!
    I have a doctor’s appt. that is 3 hours away today. The temps will be close to 100°. I was so tempted to reschedule.
    The deaths in TN due to the flooding are heartbreaking to say the least.
    I pray those you know with the possible
    dreaded mess get thru it. I just don’t understand.
    You guys will get some lovable fur babies
    when the time is right. I believe that.
    Wish me well sitting in the car for 6 hrs. in this heat. Yes we have AC but I don’t wanna go.😥

    1. Backporchwriter Avatar

      Oh I’m sorry you have to go drive on this scorcher of a day. I pray you get into some fun on the way back? A shop or good place to eat? Starbucks? Best of luck today!

  2. Sybil Avatar
    Sybil

    Hi Sonya, Well I should think it’s about mid day with you, it’s 8.15pm over here. I can’t be,I Eve that it’s almost the end of August and already the days are getting shorter and the lights are having to go on about 8.30/45 in the evening. I’m sure it was much later in the year when we had to switch our lights on. I’m sorry that the heating is not behaving itself. I’m sure you were suffering from heat exhaustion you had all they symptoms being so exhausted and lethargic I’m glad that it has passed over now. Hope the heating is better today…I love when I see the deer in your yard, it looks so peaceful …..I’m sorry that one of your old friends seems to be missing in the awful flooding we saw it all on our TV screen, a group of our firefighters have left to give as much help as needed…. Take care. God Bless

    1. Backporchwriter Avatar

      Oh wow that is awesome that a team from there is coming to help. It’s awful there. So many impacted. Our weather is so volatile and crazy!

  3. Lauren Avatar
    Lauren

    My heart feels heavy this week too. So many bad things happening in the world. I just can’t get over the awful flooding in your state.
    Sorry to hear your loved ones are unwell. And it sounds scary the way you are feeling. They need to get your air fixed. You should not have to suffer at work. Heat exhaustion can make you sick. I worked at a place where the air broke it seemed all summer long.
    I remember feeling just drained and sick by the time I left work.
    We had one heck of a storm last night. I was sitting by the sunroom door looking out. All of a sudden I saw a flash of light and heard the biggest boom when Lightning hit right beside our neighbor’s trampoline. I thought it had hit our house it was so loud. I hollered I was so startled. Husband even saw it through the kitchen windows. This morning he went out to look and found a big splinter of wood where it had hit a tree. I have never in my lifetime been that close to lightning. Very scary.
    I hope you feel better today. Hang in there this week is almost over.

    1. Backporchwriter Avatar

      The Lord is giving strength amidst all the turmoil. I really think this life will get harder and harder but God will see us through and still give us contentment and joy. But some weeks are hard. The weather, fires, sickness- on it goes. Keep your chin up! We Gotta help each other!

    2. Backporchwriter Avatar

      Oh that lightening scary! We had a neighbor once that their suns bed caught in fire next to a plug or somehow it got in. They were ok snd that’s rare.

  4. Rose Avatar
    Rose

    Just chiming in on that beautiful little grandson of yours! You must miss him like crazy! I hope you and hubby can go see him soon or at least the holiday season. He is going to be fun at Christmas and I know you guys will spoil him rotten and rightfully so!

    It is very hot here also. Almost 100 and for us that is just to much. Well for anyone its just to much! I keep saying that the world has gone topsy turvy since covid. Airplane violence is up 60%! That is insane! I’m not sure what is going on .. weather, wars, mean people. I hope and pray it all stops very soon.

    In the meantime I will stay to myself and my grandkids and find happiness somewhere! 🙂

    Take care,
    Rose

    1. Backporchwriter Avatar

      Yes we miss him and want to hold him desperately! We are scheming plans!

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